Men's problems and women's problems Mark McIlroy 21 September 2025 1. In this note I'm addressing some problems men have, and some problems women have. 2. Men's problems. 3. Young men I highly recommend that you try to have sex with at least 10 different women before you get married. Prostitutes count towards this total. If you do this your soul will be fulfilled and you will be content with your wife. You will not feel the slightest desire or need to have sex with other women once you are married. This effect is extremely beneficial to marriage. Some women have this need too. 4. Women's problems. 5. Some women feel that if they don't get married before their mid 20's then they will be 'left on the shelf' and will be single for the rest of their lives. I don't think that they should think like this. It is true that many people, especially in the past, married in their early 20's. After you pass 26 or 27 the number of single men becomes much fewer. However, as they say 'there is someone for everyone'. Be patient and the right person will come along. Try dating. If you just stay at home you will never meet anyone. You have until you are about 35 to get married if you want to have children.